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There are many different locations (both indoor and outdoor) that are suitable for weddings. We
would need to discuss what kind of atmosphere you are looking for. If you want an outdoor
wedding, have a viable backup plan already in place from the beginning so there is not a
last-minute scramble to move.
Must we meet with you first?
No, but if you can - it is best. You should be sure you want me to be the person to perform your
wedding ceremony. There is no fee for this consultation.
What documents should be brought to the first meeting?
I do not require any documents for the meeting.
How about a rehearsal?
I strongly recommend a rehearsal so you will feel more confident when the "real thing" happens.
This can be done the evening before or earlier in the day before the wedding. This is something
we will have to work out. If I attend the rehearsal, an additional fee will be necessary.
How long should a wedding ceremony be?
This varies with different circumstances. An indoor wedding with comfortable seating and climate
control can be a bit longer than an outdoor wedding or one in which all your guests are standing.
I've performed beautiful weddings that were more than 30 minutes long and some equally
beautiful ones that were less than 15.
Are there any particular phrases that must be stated for the wedding ceremony?
You are free to write phrases, statements of commitment and pledges of faith that mean
something to you. This is your commitment you are making. I will be glad to provide you some
samples of vows if you request. Additionally, there are many sites on the Internet which provide
examples.
May we have friends or family members read or sing special selections that are
particularity meaningful to us?
Most certainly! I would be pleased to work with you on such special arrangements.
How do we dress for the ceremony/what do you wear as the minister?
You can be as casual or formal as you desire. You may have a particular theme in mind for your
ceremony and you can wear whatever you like. I have participated in weddings with a Country
and Western theme, blue jeans and cowboy hats, as well as formal ceremonies with tuxedos and
wedding gowns.
Most often, I wear a suit. However, I am open to dressing according to the theme of your
wedding. This is something we can discuss.
Do you require pre-marital counseling?
No. I am not a licensed counselor. I will help in any way I can.
What do we need to do to get a marriage license?
Click here for detailed information for Bexar County, Texas requirements. While the
requirements throughout the state are the same, fees may be different. Check with your County
Clerk to find out.